I’ve been sort of awol the past week and a bit. Short holiday plus getting tooth extracted in anticipation of braces on lower teeth next month. I discovered I don’t really do bounce-back as quickly as I used to.
Anyway, away we go. And I completely understand if this post isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, way too long, and not what you were expecting.
Color Theory is an actual theory and I expect some of us had it used by consultants at various times to figure out makeup and clothing that work best on our skin tones, and hair and eye colours.
Wiki’s explanation of it is as follows:
“Color theory, or more specifically traditional color theory, is a historical body of knowledge describing the behavior of colors, namely in color mixing, color contrast effects, color harmony, color schemes and color symbolism.”
Goethe’s color wheel from his 1810 Theory of Colours
The factor I’m most interested in regarding the Wiki explanation is the ‘behavior of colours’ on us as humans and how they make us feel. That translates to how we perceive colour being good or bad looking on us, how we interact with colours emotionally, and how/why/maybe things happen when those interactions/perceptions change. I hope that makes sense.
I wore loads of black for years and felt both incredibly chic and safe – because the ‘uniform’ worked to give me emotional structure and oomph in the world, particularly the work world and when going out fancy. But about 10 years ago (so, early 50s), I realised that no longer worked well: black didn’t sit as well on my complexion and with my hair colour, and it had started to feel, well, stark and draining. Weirdly exhausting.
I have very dark brown hair which used to have non-chemical auburn highlights, what I used to perceive as light to medium toned skin (I tanned when we still did that rather than burning), and dark brown eyes with almost black eyebrows and eye lashes. My lips are quite pigmented and that pigment is red rather than pink or mauve.
My hair has darkened over time and now has patches/stripes of grey and has lost the auburn highlights. It’s gone flatter, more matte, in tone (according to various hairdressers, this happens). It seems to absorb light rather than reflecting it. I no longer colour it. However, the little grey ‘patches’ veer pale blue and break up the unremitting dark matte.
I’ve worn high SPF sunscreen from when we all discovered this was important for health. And when I stopped tanning at all I noticed that I was actually quite light-skinned. Not dead pale but nowhere near beige. With red undertones and my veins come up between blue and green on my wrists. Everyone else in my family has/had darker skin tones and more olive undertones.
My emotional reaction to not being able to wear head to toe black was … a bit of sadness and frustration – it can be such a good look – as well as initially confusion: ‘ok, but what do I do now?’
It took some mess-making with regard to clothes and makeup to work out both what now worked on me but also what I liked wearing — what new colours/tones actually made me feel comfortable and put together.
I still own loads of black trousers in different fabrics and cuts plus a few skirts. So, what to do with tops…
- petrol blue (and the colour of the sky at gloaming). navy is ok, but it ends up feeling almost as flat and matte on me as black, so I don’t use it much, and it needs good accessories;
- red is ok in prints, but the prints have to be muted and the red has to be blue-based – tomato reds make me look ill (sigh: my wedding dress in my mid-20s was a tomato red Betsey Johnson) – and it makes a big difference what the base colour is (white is good with blue-based red, but the print then needs a bit of blue or green);
- grey is a no-no – it makes me feel … grey, no matter the depth or tone, because it completely drains colour from my face, or accentuates the red undertones — even if I’ve mostly cancelled them out with makeup — and I look like I drink too much;
- white is ok but it needs texture, so linen or slubbed cotton;
- brown … brown is hard – I like the idea, but it needs breaking up for it to make me feel good – brown with white polka dots actually makes my brain fizz in the best sort of way (think Julia Roberts’ dress at the polo match in Pretty Woman);
- finally, green … well, green is a conundrum – I have a beautiful majority green silk paisley shirt and that gets a big happy reaction in my brain and works on my skin, but I think that’s only because it includes purple and a deep blue; olive green, which I love in theory, doesn’t work in clothes as it’s one of those tones that just drains the skin but leaves the red, again sort of making me look like I drink too much (when I don’t drink at all).
Briefly on makeup. Black around my eyes (bar mascara) has become a no-no. In my 20s, I wore black eye shadow with gold bits – to work – and it looked awesome. Thank you, Shiseido. Now, it’s brown eyeliner with shimmer and no eyeshadow ‘cause the lids are too crepey. Strangely, muted red blush works best – but most of the skin redness has to be cancelled out by light linen coloured foundation. Lipstick. Now, that’s a good place. After years of mauve (a lot of the time because it was easy) things have opened up to include some reds and oddly (due to the clothing thing) brown-based pinks that skew more brown. It feels very ‘80s but updated – and reminds me of all the great clothes I wore in the ‘80s.
All in, it’s been an interesting ride – which has taken a good long while to parse, like almost 10 years to realise that things had really changed and to find the next chapter.
Does this jibe with any of your experiences? If yes, how have things ended up changing?
Pics: Wiki, Pexels
This is a fascinating subject! So glad you’ve written about it!!!
I’m a light, olive brown – cafe au lait is a close description. When my very dark hair started fading I tried letting it… but it came in patches that left me looking like an underbaked scone… or a calico cat – and it widened everything because there was no delineation between my hair and my face! Yikes!
Clothing: black and white because Lazy and also because a lot of print tend to make me disappear. But it has to be a crisp, bright white- anything softer/ warmer washes me out. Very deep blue or hot pink also works
Patches. I do love the underbaked scone image (sorry). So, what do you do? There’s so much fun hair colour these days.
I’m still coloring very dark brown/ black. And I sigh with envy at glorious silver/ black… which seems NOT to be my lot in life.
Sigh
I love color theory and discussion! For me it’s a mix of: colors that I believe look good on me, plus colors I like even if they’re not my “best.” I wore a lot of black for a long time (I think you, Dina and I must have similar coloring and/or undertones) and now it washes me out. I’m wearing some shades I thought I would never wear, including pale/icy pinks. There’s a makeup YouTuber who’s also an artist and she talks a lot about color theory, including high/low contrast as it relates to makeup, etc. I wear more gray and more brown (deep, cool toned) as my black alternates. I should be wearing more navy, it’s a good color for me, but I don’t care for it, don’t know why!
I think navy suffers from being black’s more boring sibling. But it can look great (just not really on me). Pale pink. Ages ago I owned a pale pink fitted top with a long skirt with a slit. It was awesome. Heavy slubbed silk. Probably something bought at Boltons (ah, Boltons). I don’t know where it disappeared to.
Hey Cinnamon,
I trained to be a colorist in the 1980s, parsing people into the seasons. It was fun and it really changed how people worked with clothes and how they felt wearing things that suited.
Having said that, we also had to do some interesting workarounds for people who wore all black, even if it was not perfect for them. Scarves, undershirts/blouses, false reveres and even chokers in their true colours would do the trick and give their flat black enormous amounts of personalised pizazz. Suddenly they went from city chic to city style.
I really enjoyed this post and it reminded me of another time. So many good memories.
Thank you.
Portia xx
You have done, and continue to do, such interesting things. I can imagine someone being wedded to the idea of black clothes — even if it doesn’t quite work.
Glad to have facilitated good memories.
We all get paler & faded as we age. Now my natural hair colour is grey streaked mouse, with clump at the front that used to be paler blonde & is now almost colourless, to avoid looking sad, it’s now a bleached as pale as possible & cut in a really short pixie. I’ve pale brows & pale reddish lashes, light skin highlighted by some broken veins. I never really tan, just go a little peachy. My eyes are heterochromic Irish eyes. Grey with a gold ring round the pupil. As Tom & I were discussing earlier this week.
The colours I can’t wear are those supposedly chic buffs, rich creams, taupes etc. Most yellows & greens are off the table too.
I’ve always worn almost any reds, blues, purples & pinks though some wash me out, greys, turquoise, emerald & bright orange. I still wear them. I used to wear black trousers with a coloured top as my day to day uniform. Since so retired the tops are the same but now with jeans
I guess that is why the nameless one uses orange makeup… I am actually moving away from my short hair (shock, horror — maybe a mullet sort of thing or shag) as wearing it so short for me makes me look like a boy. Really not good. Does your eye colour change with what you wear? When I worked in an office in the UK black strangely wasn’t a thing. Especially after we moved to the horror of business casual (I had a boss who wore those awful red-orange trousers with madras shirts). I left the US in the late 1990s — the ’80s and ’90s there were so awesome clothing wise.
I don’t know about office clothing outside healthcare. Off duty I wore all black as an 80’s goth. 90s was less black, work office was the black bottom, coloured top. Then I was forced back into the NHS uniform. Navy bottom & white tunic, then navy bottom & navy with white polka dot tunic. Nights out I went back to black.
As for hair back then? Long & wide. It was naturally very curly, almost Afro texture.
Eyes, yes very changeable. Estée Kauder did a red/brown matte shadow called Cocoa. Made my eyes shimmer bright green. I miss it. My mood changes them too. Beware if they are flat, deep grey & unreflective or the 1000mile death stare
I find that I look best in jewel tones for clothing. Blues like Tanager Turquoise, deep navy, or blue greys, greens like emerald, aquamarine, or Dartmouth green. Reds are iffy- no orange red. Brown is tough. Black washes me out since my hair is so grey. I actually find myself wearing more colors as I get older and wear less business formal, with the Navy or Charcoal jacket and mute shirts and ties. Pretty soon I’ll be in muu-muus..
This is interesting. Jewel tones make me look like I’m trying too hard, that mutton dressed as lamb thing. I love Hawaiian shirts even though I could never see my way to wearing one. I actually had to look up pics of muu-muus …
You sound like a Deep Winter, Cinnamon. I’m a True/Clear Winter (these color systems all have their own proprietary names for the variations). It’s helpful to go on Pinterest and look at the color palettes and see what skin, eye, and hair color combo puts you in what camp. I was ivory pale, dark brown hair, and blue-green changeable eyes. Now my hair is silver. Very cool toned. I also find pure black draining around my face nowadays. My best neutrals are navy, charcoal grey, dove grey, and white. My best colors are fuchsia, violet, cobalt, teal, cool red, and pale pink, blue, lavender and seafoam green. I avoid tan, beige, orange, yellow, and brown. They make me look ready for the casket. Side note: I find it really difficult to find a foundation match that isn’t too yellow, or doesn’t oxidize either yellow or orange on my face.
When I was thinking this post through it was less explicitly about the colour wheel and more about how what works on us/makes us happy and comfortable means. I’ve never had the process done though I find the idea interesting.
Foundation … I’ve had to go through a number of different ones to find something that, as you note, doesn’t go orange — but also doesn’t have pink undertones even when it ‘says’ it’s neutral. May current one is a Merit foundation/concealer stick.
Love that Merit, I have … whatever the palest cool tone is.
I have linen. It seems to be a true neutral and does a good job with the redness without being heavy.
Ha! We clearly have very similar coloring in addition to similar tastes in fragrance. I do think it’s getting easier to find true cool foundations now that everyone’s not trying to look like a Kardashian? It was SO irritating to have makeup SAs trying to “hide” my pink under yellow makeup.
Yes to this. Even Prescriptives SAs in the 90s tried to say I was yellow toned, despite my eyes seeing the English rose complexion
This happened to me at Bobbi Brown! (that stuff is still a little warm toned tbh.) My face looked like the palest yellow color of a faded bruise in their foundation “match.”
Giggles at bruised hue!
My pinkness has faded with age, now I’m more neutral. In the past I found US foundations very yellow & French more forgiving with a rosy tone. US brands have improved but now I struggle with Asian bases.
I’ve stopped wearing foundation bases, in my 60’s they aren’t flattering, so I use Erborian BB & CC creams in their lightest shade for a veil of coverage.
Hi, Cinnamon. I struggle with colors now that my hair is turning gray. I let it go white around the temples and decided to color it back to my natural color. In my younger days I was a true autumn, but now I am a soft autumn. The browns that are supposed to work well do nothing for my mood. I can’t wear black or white next to my face.
The only makeup looks that work now are soft blushes and lip colors.
I find that a navy blue or khaki-gold eye pencil works well.
I say wear what makes you feel good!
I agree with wear what makes us feel good, but for me there was confusion in the transition. I think I’ve gotten things more ‘right’ now but every once in a while I look at myself before going out and think ‘ah, that still doesn’t sit right’. It is a process.