Traveller or Tourist?

Well, I’m home. The weather is good: warm and sunny. I had a good trip and came home with a head full of thoughts. A few of them I’ll share here. (A note: I continue to have trouble with transferring pics I take from the iPhone to the laptop vis AirDrop and how they come out. I am trying to fix this.)

I ended up in Paris for five days. Paris is a fairly easy trip from here; it was meant to be included with my next trip for the memorials anyway; I didn’t feel like going some place in the UK (given I’d done London recently to see friends); and it was reasonably easy to organise with little lead-up time. There, you have justification. And I have friends living there which meant I wasn’t on my own the whole time. I am fine with solo travel but have come to the conclusion I like that being broken up with time spent with people I know.

So, yes, Paris. We’ll do a small selection of my fave activities, a bit of food, and at the end some thoughts on the difference between being a traveller and a tourist, and my conclusion that maybe really popular destinations should think about no longer accepting large tour cohorts.

Next week’s post will focus on perfume because, well, perfume and Paris.

Onward.

I liked my hotel which was in the first arrondissement right near the Tuileries gardens and the Louvre. It was a bit unique being located on the top four storeys of an historic building rather than inhabiting its own building. The bottom floors had a couple of lawyers and a company named International Perfumes of Paris. Which meant sometimes the lower floors smelled of perfumes that I thought I knew but could never quite put my finger on.

I metro’d and walked – even the first couple of days when it rained heavily for periods. The weather decided to improve half way through.

Standout experiences: the Lee Miller exhibition at the modern art museum; walking through a number of new to me covered passages and cobbled lanes (see pic); visiting the Place des Vosges park (pics below) and then Carette for hot chocolate, whipped cream and pastries (a saner and slightly less touristy place vs Angelina on the rue de Rivoli); travelling to the east of Paris where my friends live which is a proper neighbourhood inhabited by normal people; wandering around the centre of Paris and admiring the architecture; visiting the Bastille market which was full of glorious seasonal food (the prettiest strawberries I’ve seen in a long time).

Standout food experiences (note — I did not eat a lot of classically French food): black sesame ice cream; pastries (which I brought to dinner with my friends) from Seraphine in the 16th arr, which turned out to be a very famous place I’d never heard of (it was walkable between the museum and the metro to get me where I was going), especially the airiest, best combo of flavours meringue I’ve ever had; chicken and fig gyoza for dinner one night (which the waiter told me French people eat with white wine); that hot chocolate with whipped cream at Carette – not sweet just lovely, viscous liquid chocolate into which you dumped the cream; the raspberry crepe at Laduree the last afternoon when I was totally starving.

I brought back chocolates from two different shops plus last minute Laduree macarons.

And so to the title of today’s post. I will say up front that my thinking is very jumbled and my writing here is extremely awkward.

So, what does it mean the difference between being a traveller vs being a tourist?

About a day into the trip I shifted to paying much less attention to the objectives I had set and more to just being in the city. I absolutely still had a list of things I wanted to see but the in-between, the getting from one place to another came to the fore. I stopped more to look and stopped more in cafes which meant that movement was verrrry slooooowed down.

One thing I took note of is that Paris, more than my recent experience of London, is a very economically divided city. Alongside high end shops and beautiful old buildings which are kept carefully in decent shape you have people living in tents – on streets like rue de Rivoli. One can choose to try not to see it but it’s incredibly, incredibly there. So, I’m not so sure in this instance that Twain’s comments can apply when you have loads of people following their google maps from the Louvre to Angelina without looking up much from their phones; caricatured, very well dressed older men and women cooing to tiny dogs while drinking wine on café terraces right next to those ubiquitous tents; influencers with selfie sticks recording themselves going into Hermes to be posted later for their subscribers; gaggles of tourists following a guide paying little real attention to getting where they are going – ie, just focused on the objective.

Also, I came away from the trip, as I had from the visit to Prague two years ago, thinking that tour groups should either be banned or severely restricted in size (like, under 10 members) in these old European cities as they completely alter the landscape of a place. Please don’t flame me but if all you get wandering in your group of 20-25 is moving from hotel to Louvre to Eiffel Tower, etc, in your bus/coach you aren’t likely to actually see Paris. It’s a bit like treating a city as a large Disneyland. And large groups of people block pavements without thought. Out in Belleville in the east, not a destination for tourists till quite recently, one morning I followed a tour group up the hill of rue de Belleville — around 18 people — walking in twos like a primary school outing, oblivious to the disruption to regular life around them.

Further, of course, you may want to see specific things as part of any travel but it seems that the destination can disappear under the urge to go from A to B to C so you can then say I saw A, B and C. For some reason I now get Rick Steves’ Paris posts on Facebook and that’s very much the tone of people looking for guidance on their trip (ie, ‘I am planning the Louvre in the morning, then the Musee d’Orsay, then Notre Dame, then the Arc de Triomphe — Is that too much for one day?’ People commenting frequently answer this type of question with ‘Are you planning to eat at all? Do you have any interest in seeing Paris rather than tick-boxing?’)

I can see how this sort of commentary could be viewed as being elitist. For many people they may only visit a faraway destination once in their life.

Also, since the start of the Iran war there have been a number of articles about how this sort of incident is going to negatively affect mass popular tourism, due to costs rising, meaning we could return to more of a situation where travel is mostly for those who are better off economically. But as with many things we as humans have over-done in the past, say, 40 years mass thoughtless tourism has become a problematic issue for many destinations. Something worth thinking about to my mind — but perhaps a bit hypocritical on my part as of course I do plan to continue travelling.

Anyway, there you go. As noted last week in this case a change was definitely as good as a rest and I came home feeling a bit more relaxed and like my brain/imagination had experienced a recharge.

Pics: mine, wiki

  • Maya says:

    Travel is great because it’s going to someplace different – culture, way of life, language, climate, scenery, and much more. I think of myself as a visitor who you have graciously allowed in and try to behave accordingly.

  • March says:

    Oh, I wish I could pop over to Paris like that! I’d do it regularly, I think. I’m probably more tolerant of tourists than most, having grown up in Washington, D.C. where tourists are just part of daily life, like traffic and humidity. And where I live now is a small town that runs on tourist dollars, so. When I travel I try to see the one or two “big” things, whatever they are, but budget most of my time (often solo) for wandering around on foot, just taking in the joy of being in a different place.

    • cinnamon says:

      I no longer do cheap travel or I would visit more. Tourism is a thing here but to less of an extent than farther west. I used to get grumpy at people standing in the middle of NYC sidewalks when I was on my limited lunch hour…

      • March says:

        Oh, the ONLY pushback from me was related to the Metro (subway) system. I’d regularly yell, “stand to the right!” while running up/down an escalator, and also whyyyyyyyyy do people stop immediately at the top/bottom of the escalator? Do they not understand how these things work?

  • Tom says:

    I know there’s always been that distinction between tourist and traveler. I am not sure where I’d fall. I’d hope that I would be at least presentable and am old enough and enough of a closet luddite that my phone pretty much would stay in my pocket. But I don’t think I could keep myself from at least humming this:

    https://youtu.be/J6t0ToAlyXQ?si=6snnsCGqup9zI4K7

    • cinnamon says:

      That’s wonderful, the video. Who is the other female actor?

      I would say that I fall between the two even though I try hard for traveller. I speak enough French to manage most interactions and am careful to dress to blend in (no bright blue cropped trousers and worn out at the neck pink t shirt — yes, I did see that several times on women who made it clear they were American).

      • Tom says:

        That’s Kay Thompson. She was a Broadway star and the creator of Eloise of Eloise at the Plaza.

    • Maya says:

      I like that video. Wasn’t Audrey Hepburn a cutie!

  • alityke says:

    I’m envious of your travel. I look forward to being able go somewhere again. City visits aren’t on the menu now. DH is too fatigued.

    • cinnamon says:

      Paris was tiring. I think that was another reason why I ended up stopping so much — walking on cobbles makes you ache. It does make sense for you to be going to relaxing places.

  • Dina C. says:

    When my husband and I were in Paris in November of 2024, we tried to balance seeing the big museums with enjoying the city. It wasn’t either one of our first times in Paris, but certainly the first time when we were in control of the itinerary. We didn’t see everything on my wish list of things to see, so I’m longing to go back. While there we heard the word “touristic” thrown around as a sneering insult. We were at a marvelous little restaurant one evening, and some young people at the next table said, “Oh, I didn’t realize this place would be so touristic.” Please. It was just a few months after the Summer Olympics. All of Paris was swarming with tourists that year. I’m green with envy that you could plan a trip over to Paris, Cinnamon. The food sounds delicious. I’m glad you had a pleasant trip. Looking forward to hearing more!

    • cinnamon says:

      I subscribe to a travel blog/site that tries to point you towards less heavily trafficked places but even they comment that it is harder without true local knowledge to go places that aren’t ‘touristic’ to some extent.

      Also, I do think many people don’t make the simple effort to be polite in the host language (ie, learn please, thank you, etc).

    • Tom says:

      As much as I like snark I like English more. I was taught that the word “touristic” relates to the industry. They wanted to say “touristy” but maybe with 10% less snoot.

      “This restaurant has become so touristy! I hate it!”

      “Well, Karen, you chose a place that has been a touristic attraction since Josephine Baker wore bananas, so stuff a baguette in it and cope.”

  • Portia says:

    OOOOOH! Paris! How I love it Cinnamon.
    A few years ago a bunch of world perfumistas descended on Paris together. Many had never been. Three of us Aussies took an AirBnB for three weeks in Chatelet le Halles. We organized a few things. A group to Palais Royale Serge Lutens where we were shown through the whole range in the upstairs yellow room. Another group to the Osmotheque, where Patricia de Nicolai gave us a wonderful, wide ranging lecture of perfume through the ages that ran an hour over time because she loved having us there and had too many stories. Versailles, where we went to the garden and they wouldn’t let us into the palace so we went back 40 minutes from closing and ran through to the Hall of Mirrors to get photos. We wandered the streets in different groups. Immersed ourselves in perfume, food, art, parks and all the fun of tourist-ing Paris with a bunch of people.
    Sorry, that was almost a post in itself.
    Too many happy memories.
    Can’t wait for more of your travelogue.
    Portia xx

    • cinnamon says:

      That sounds like so much fun. I went by the SL at the Palais Royale and as I was staring into the window the door magically opening into the dark exterior. I had other things to do so didn’t go in but felt rather magical. Anyway, one day we’ll do a Paris perfume visit but we’ll behave like sane visitors. I was astonished by how poorly a lot of group visitors behaved.

      Oh, also, the new mayor is making a concerted effort to make airBnBs less available so that Parisians have more places to rent themselves.