Happy second May bank holiday and Memorial Day in the US.
We are in a mini heatwave. Should last through the week, which is the spring half term week off for school. This means I’ll do stuff early or late but it’s only a fool who ventures out during the rest of the day unless absolutely necessary.

(This is my sun hat. I’ve had it for ages and it has travelled widely.
I love my hat.)
I spent Friday – literally all day but only in bits of time – collecting up the dry fallen leaves from my neighbours’ eucalyptus tree. The tree overhangs my garden and I love it. The process is laborious but sort of zen, in that it takes some concentration but leaves a bit of headspace to think about the garden. But nothing else.
Last week was a grumble with some nice things, one of which was getting a haircut. I am growing my pixie cut out and am finding that by the fifth week before a cut I look like my mum put a bowl on my head and cut round it (I did do this to my son once when he was little – did not do that again). I love my hairdresser and she is good – nothing she can do about the 2-3 days before next cut.
And had a reflexology session which left me with sore hips and a grumpy gut. Which is fine. Manipulation is supposed to shake things up.
Anyway, the grumbles:
- I yelled at an elderly woman who cut in front of me at the farm shop. I don’t get it: why is it so hard to behave like a decent, considerate, patient human being?
- I started four weeks of no sugar. I’ve done no sugar periods in the past. The first week or so is not fun. The stuff really is addictive. I just felt that after Paris and eating what I brought back it was time for a break. Every day has been my brain going ‘just a piece of dark chocolate, just some ice cream, just a small pastry, just a small bag of peanut M&Ms’. But no, so far have managed not to give in.
Anyway, pre-haircut, a visit to spaceNK. I have a weird thing about DS & Durga: loads of their perfumes sound so good but nothing works on me. So, when I’m in a shop with the brand I tend to try something, just to see if my streak holds. Thus, today’s perfume.

(A generic DS & Durga bottle. I couldn’t find JY.)
I had a go with Jazmin Yucatan on paper a bit ago and thought I should do skin. Which I did.
I think March was first to write about this brand here. This fragrance was released in 2020. Notes list: water, passionflower, bergamot, jazmin Yucatan, jasmine sambac, clove, snake plant, vetiver and copal (a tree resin best known as being used as a ceremonial incense).
This is weird on me. Ozone, marine, tame citrus and then it dries down to jasmine candy (ie, like violet pastilles but jasmine). I kept forgetting it was on my wrist and then would remember and do a smell.

Clearly, this is not for me. It’s just one of those things you do sometimes.
Anyway, before I tried JY, I had a look at the Victoria Beckham foundation, which is the makeup equivalent of a pricey handbag. Reviews are fulsome. In pics the stuff looks beautiful on skin, even older, grumpier skin like mine.
The SA chose three shades (all of which thankfully were out of stock) to test on me and one just disappeared – just so right and so beautiful on my skin. Just say no.
So, any DS & Durga you love/like/think are cool? Any big grumps from the previous week? Any Victoria Beckham stuff you like?
Oh, and the heat means I broke out the Goutal Ninfeo Meo, which has to be one of the most perfect ever hot weather fragrances. Have a good week.
Pics: wikiparfums, pexels, mine

A sugar fast sounds like a great idea! I’m just back from five days in New Orleans, so need something drastic. We had fun, but it’s now back to intermittent fasting and low carb…I feel better doing this, but…pastry…potatoes…?
Ah, New Orleans. Never been and always wanted to visit. Glad it was fun. It’s now a week and a half regarding the no sugar. Am still having brain pings of things I’m not eating, like the other day chocolate mousse just popped into my brain. Gone quickly but I do wonder if it will stop soon.
I’m glad you’re holding up in the heat. It actually made the news here.
DS & Durga just sailed right over my little round head. Didn’t work for me at all.
This country does not do extreme heat well. Even though it is happening more frequently.
I like trying these sorts of things but generally they disappear from my brain very quickly.
Sugar, my nemesis. Chocolate is a none negotiable as is butter.
DS&D has been one of those brands that I’ve ignored. None of their releases have ever bought my fancy
A friend just sent me an article on the negative effects of sugar. not surprising but still a frustrating read. From my perspective DS etc isn’t even close to the top of the keep an eye on list.
Also, I forgot to mention I love your hat! And as a person who looooooves sugar and all the carbs all the time, I do periodic breaks from sugar at which point I have to acknowledge how incredibly addictive it is, at least for me. I don’t do wack “zero carb” things but limit my sweets to fresh fruit and unsweetened kefir. It is wild how your taste buds will recalibrate if given the chance. I’ve been stressed and over-consuming recently and I notice it in splotchy skin and bloat.
The hat is decades old but remains in good shape. Folds or rolls well and has travelled with me a lot. I am doing watermelon, feta and mint right now. A very good combo.
I think the Durgas are fun and/but they are all kind of weird. Some of the OG ones (Bowmakers, Mississippi Medicine) smell great on men (or women, depending.) I’m not going to buy one, but I wouldn’t say no to a bottle of gifted Radio Bombay. I have not tried this (yet) but I am thrilled to announce that the first bud on my “hardy” jasmine has opened! I built it a fort for the winter but had no idea if it would survive.
Hurrah to your jasmine! I am waiting on the dahlias, which I hope made it through the winter wet.
JY was interesting. Not something I would buy though.
I did a momentary chuckle when I saw DS & Durga. It seems that lately I am doing a lot of negatives (grumbles) on perfumes mentioned. Some years ago a friend gave me a mesh bag of over 20 DS & Durga samples. None of them did anything for me which was good because all of them lasted on my skin for between 10 and about 25 minutes and, poof, were gone.
Wow, on the sugar. I never occurred to me to go sugar free. But then again too much sugar often makes me gag. I do indulge in junk food periodically, which does include sweet stuff, and enjoy every minute of it. Sigh – then go back to healthier eating. lol.
I too indulge in junk food periodically but usually it’s got potatoes in or near it. Most of the sugar I eat is decent quality—it’s just felt like too much of it. And I know it’s an addiction as the first week after I stop is withdrawal.
I love potatoes!
Cinnamon, good for you on the sugar. I hadn’t realized that it could actually be addictive. Social media has people saying anything and everything about everything and anything so the truth has become rare and illusive.
I’m not referring to sugar added to what is supposed to be non-sugary food. Rather, it’s stopping everything overtly sugar: so no ice cream, no chocolate, no pastries, no little bags of this or that, no hot chocolate and no adding sugar to a drink (and of course no fizzy drinks).
OMG you have some strong willpower! Good for you and respect.
Good luck in the heat Cinnamon, Annick Goutal does summer so well and Ninfeo Meo is one of the best.
HA! How loud did you shout at the woman who cut you off at the shop? Full twelve point collapse?
NO SUGAR! You are the strongest human being I know.
I like a bunch of the D S & Durgas. Their stuff seems to sit well on me. Never tried this though. Sounds wonderful.
Portia x
The DS&Ds I’ve tried have always been ‘almost’ fragrances. But this definitely isn’t in that list. Though I was very intrigued by the jasmine candy aspect.
I was pretty loud. In the past couple of years — I guess post covid, when the shop re-imagined itself — there have been a fair number of older people (I’m thinking over 70) who I don’t think are regular visitors who just don’t have the patience the place requires now (that it it much busier) and cut in front in all kinds of circumstances (eg, a guy cut in front of a little boy in the line for the toilets).
I don’t think our heat is like yours. I spend a lot of time trying to keep the dog comfortable. It must be really hard wearing a fur jacket in this.
Maybe because the UK doesn’t have this happen every year, or for nearly as long, it feels more like an attack. Sydney can be pretty humid. It drives Jin bonkers.
Enjoy your heatwave, Cinnamon! We had a few days of heat last week and then plunged back down into cool and rainy this weekend. I have a Victoria Beckham eyeliner pencil that’s very soft and smudgy in the color Surfside, a blue-green teal. I don’t have any DS & Durga scents. I’ve tried AG Ninfeo Meo in the past and loved it. I agree it’s great in warm weather.
In the scheme of the world it’s actually not that hot but it’s so humid where I live it always feels a bit harder to bear (vs my experience of NYC in the summer). The garden is happy.