It’s My Birthday, and I’ll Whine If I Want To..

Not today, mind you, but it is this weekend. I am unashamed to admit that I am turning 65 years old. Not that I did much other than eat, sleep, and breathe to get here, but I guess the point is I can still do all three. Maybe not as fast or effectively as I could in my 20’s but I am fine with that. I would prefer the jaw and waistline I had then but don’t need to be the slightly unformed person I was. Although I know that sometimes this is a minority opinion, I like who I have become. So there.

Johnnie’s. Please reopen as a diner.

This weekend I took the bus over to the last few days of the Gary Baseman exhibit at the Old Johnnie’s Coffee Shop on Wilshire at Fairfax. Gary is a local hero who’s art I am a fan of, and Johnnie’s is a treasure- it missed the wrecking ball by thismuch when the decision was made to place the new Subway entrance equidistant to LACMA, The Academy museum (In the old May Company building) and the Petersen. It’s in pristine condition and I hope that someone reopens it. If you can dig up a copy of the 80’s thriller “Miracle Mile” they filmed quite a bit there.

LACMA

Then I went downtown, just for the heck of it.

I had worked downtown for over a decade at the August LA Times and was there for big transitions. I was there when Tribune took over and stayed until they showed my department the door. Which was thankfully before they moved the whole kit and kaboodle to El Segundo.

Times Mirror Square “The Square” to the inmates

(now for a rant)

They moved to El Segundo because one of the bright boys in Chicago decided they didn’t need the huge LAT building, so they would sell it and lease it back. This was stupid in my opinion because the property would have to be reassessed for tax purposes, and since the family had owned the land since the 1800’s that was going to be pricey for the new owners. So the new owners jacked up the rent and the paper’s new owner decided they did not need the symbolism of having a beautiful Art Deco building almost literally across the street from City Hall, with the Publisher’s office looking directly at them.

But whatever.

Some things don’t change..

Downtown has gentrified, but still looks like it’s in stasis or something. Gone along the part of Broadway I used to frequent are the bodegas selling candles and elixirs and ones that sold (more to the point) discount perfumes. Now I suppose we have perfumaniacalsdotcom but I loved going over there and picking up things- X-mas and b-day gifts (I gave my godchild both Bandit and Fracas from there, as well as vetiver to an over-applier.) All of them are gone and the storefronts are all shiny and polished.. and empty.

I came home to some drama. False Alarm though..

So I ended up taking the subway back to Beverly Hills. I would have gone to the Broad but it was just too darned hot to try to climb Bunker Hill. Which is what I have always said to people who insist that people will take the subway to the Music Center rather than driving. “Sure Jan. Like ladies in silks and jewels will climb that 12 story in three blocks hill, then reverse the procedure at 11;30 at night.”

Yeah.

So I didn’t do anything scent-wise. I may need to go back to N-M to investigate the new Guerlains but the SA’s weren’t exactly falling all over themselves to help me; the woman at the Loewe counter actually walked me over to them.

Gary Baseman at Johnnie’s

But I did come back to a small haul of Jeffrey Dame (and some drama..) and immediately spritzed Gardenia which I am thinking I need a FB of. His stuff is wonderful, affordable, and more importantly not a huge corporate entity. I don’t wear more than a pinprick on my chest if I am going to be out, but at home in the evening? I don’t have the interest in a silk peignoir or marabou mules but in my mind, smelling pretty is all about me, and that’s perfectly fine.

The Globe Lobby at The Times building.

As for B-Day plans, they’re up in the air. A BFF has Covid and doesn’t want to see anyone until she is sure she isn’t infectious. I may decide to go to the parade of cats at LACMA on Saturday. Then the concours on Sunday. Cats and Cars. Sound good to me.

How are you spending the first weekend of summer? Plans for Juneteenth? Dad’s day? Parades of cats? Let us know in the comments.

Images: my iPhone. Pexels, Wikimedia Commons

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2 months ago

Happy birthday!

Robert
2 months ago

Happy Birthday!

2 months ago

Many happy returns of the day!
Enjoy the cats & cars, buy delicious cake & eat it all. Drink some bubbles & toast that you’re here & healthy.
Then get back on the weight maintenance regime X

2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

It does sound like somewhere Grissom would visit but I’m sure it’s just a good bakery

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  alityke

Ha! I’m just rewatching those..

Editor
2 months ago

Hello you beautiful human and congratulations on 65 Tom. Hope your day is serene and easy and that you treat yourself. Wish we were there to celebrate you in the way you deserve. Food, Fumes, Fun and Fabulousness.
Poor LA, slowly being divested of everything that made it so special.
Portia x

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Portia

Well there’s always Palm Springs..

Maggiecat
2 months ago

Happy Birthday! I’m just a few years older than you (and a few more than that for March). For all the senior moments, getting older is still a blessing and a gift that too many don’t receive. So, celebrate! And thank you for all your wonderful posts btw.

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Maggiecat

It is a blessing. One that I appreciate very much. And I try to help make sure that the world is a safe place for people like my godchild.

Jennifer S
2 months ago

Happy Birthday Tom! Whatever your plans….have fun!

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Jennifer S

Thanks, I will!

Maya
2 months ago

Sending you early Happy Birthday wishes! Hope it’s a lovely one. Psss buy a lottery ticket. 😉 I have been wondering about Jeffrey Dame’s Gardenia. Good to know it’s good. I need to put together a sample order from him.

Maya
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

Great!!!

Maya
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

Yes!!!!! Aaaaand be crazier and buy one on your actual birthday!!!

Admin
2 months ago

Hey, today is my actual birthday! I am 63 and happy to be here :D. I miss some of the fitness of my younger self, but not AT ALL the mindset. Much more at peace now. Carolyn is taking me out to dinner and I’m opening presents later today. Biggest present already received: kids gave me a new iPhone since Apple stopped supporting mine. Bless Whit’s heart, he had to set it up with me long distance, he deserves a medal.

Admin
2 months ago
Reply to  March

ALSO I want several of the Dames, starting with Juste Filthy. I’m sure that Gardenia is amazing.

Maya
2 months ago
Reply to  March

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! Wishing you a marvelous day!

Jennifer S
2 months ago
Reply to  March

Happy birthday!

Admin
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

I’d love some Roscoe’s!

MzCrz
2 months ago
Reply to  March

Happy ACTUAL birthday, March! Thank you so much for the many, many years of enjoyable content you’ve put on Perfume Posse. Have a joyful, special day.

Admin
2 months ago
Reply to  MzCrz

Oh, honey, thank you so much! I’m always pleased to see you pop up in comments with something interesting or insightful.

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  March

Indeed!

Dina C.
2 months ago
Reply to  March

Happy Birthday March! Have a wonderful dinner!

Admin
2 months ago
Reply to  Dina C.

Thank you, I’m really looking forward to it!

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  March

I hope you’ll tell us about it; I live vicariously through you people..

2 months ago
Reply to  March

Hope you had the happiest day March x

Dina C.
2 months ago

Happy Birthday week, Tom! Sounds like you’re marking the occasion in lots of fun ways. I’m always interested to see your photos and hear about the changing geography of your city. I feel your pain that the little affordable shops have gone by the wayside now.

We just got back from a few days in Ogunquit, Maine with a group of friends. We all shared a big house and walked everywhere. The weather was great. Our flight was cancelled on us at the last minute, so we ended up driving 11 hours. This coming weekend we’re going to a local wedding, that’s all. We need a vacation from our vacation!

Musette
2 months ago

And…. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

MzCrz
2 months ago

A very happy birthday, Tom. You are a youthful looking 65. May your day be full of big and small pleasures.

Christine Goebel
2 months ago

Happy upcoming Birthday, Tom! May cars and cats, and hopefully attentive SAs, and a healthy friend fill your days with joy!

Gardenia makes me happy too and I want to check it out.

cinnamon
2 months ago

Another wonderful LA post.

Happy almost birthday. It seems to me buying a bottle of that Jeffrey Dame perfume would be a great way to mark it.

Jennifer
2 months ago

I hope your Birthday is lovely! I was recently looking through this blog and found a post from 2008 that mentioned a line of lotion/soap, Indian Champa, that Cost Plus World Market used to have. I absolutely loved the smell of those products and have never seen them mentioned anywhere else. Thank you for that post. All these years later, it triggered a memory of that scent!

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Jennifer

Oh I’m glad that reminded you of something you loved. Anyone know a dupe?

Admin
2 months ago
Reply to  Jennifer

I think that was my post! And I was SO bummed that was a one-off, I’d have stocked up. Once mine was gone, it was gone.

Admin
2 months ago
Reply to  Jennifer

The only thing I’ve found like the Champa is OJ Champaca, which is delightful but obviously much, much more expensive. They do make travel sizes though! I got mine on eBay.

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  March

Well that’s something.

I stopped going to Costco Plus. I fall in love with something and they d/c it. I get enough of that from Trader Joe’s

Musette
2 months ago

Isn’t ‘Miracle Mile’ the one about a nuclear attack… she’s blotto and he’s pushing her up Wilshire … in a shopping cart?

The Tar Pits feature in it, as well…
… am I making this up?

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Musette

Nope. That’s pretty much it.

Musette
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

How is it that I can remember that movie… almost in its entirety…but I have to write down why I came into the kitchen?

Musette
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

He (and everyone else in that movie) was AMAZING!

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Musette

Yeah, I love it (Hairspray, I mean)

It was even better than the Broadway show, which I saw at a preview with my godchild. (That was her b-day present from her mom; she stayed and created a surprise party for after the show)

Tom
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

And I can tell you that I have never been cruised harder or more thoroughly than I was walking my 9-year old godchild through the NY streets. By ladies, alas. But still..

Maya
2 months ago
Reply to  Tom

Oopsy! ROFL, but I bet there was some fun in it too.