I am sorry I have been away but I had a bit of a personal issue, A couple of weeks ago one of my oldest friends partner decided to kill himself by shooting himself in the head in front of her. Frankly I never cared for him since I thought he treated my friend terribly; she deserved so much better. I knew he drank, but didn’t know how much. Our little group have banded together to try to be supportive to our friend who survived this. But I implore you, if you are in a relationship like this, get help. If you have a problem with depression, get help. If you have a problem with alcohol or drugs, get help. If you are in a relationship with someone who has these problems, get help. You may not think you need it, but it can help. Be kind to each other and be safe.